Chelsea Place Memory Care residents and staff are giving back to families experiencing food insecurity in the greater Aurora, Colorado community through their recent month-long food drive.

Residents collected boxes of non-perishable goods, packaged them, and personally dropped them off at their local Partners of Food Bank of the Rockies center.

Charitable activities like these are clearly a win-win for everyone. Residents engage in efforts that benefit others while bringing a greater sense of purpose and meaning into their lives.

You can watch full coverage of the drive on local Fox news station KDVR.

When 85-year old Eldon Schreiner moved into Willowbrook Place Memory Care in Littleton, Colorado, he brought with him a unique challenge – and an opportunity. Eldon, who has been deaf since childhood, uses sign language to communicate. Wanting to include Eldon in all facets of daily life at Willowbrook, residents and staff have embarked on a series of classes to learn some of the basics of ASL (American Sign Language).

A friend of Eldon’s instructs the classes, along with Eldon’s assistance. While it is challenging and will take time, the communication barriers are beginning to break down, fostering an atmosphere of greater connection and camaraderie.

You can learn more about Eldon’s journey by watching the coverage on local KUSA Channel 9.

Have you ever had the privilege of knowing a nurse? If so, you’ve likely witnessed their remarkable dedication, selflessness, and unwavering commitment to helping others in every possible way.

Nurses occupy a unique and vital role in memory care. In addition to providing expert care, they serve as a bridge between residents, families, and the broader medical team, ensuring that care is coordinated, timely, and effective. Nurses are dedicated to delivering compassionate, holistic care that addresses the whole person, physically, emotionally, and mentally. And, remarkably, they do it in a way that preserves the residents’ dignity during a vulnerable time in their lives.

Here are three key areas where nurses are serving memory care residents and families every day:

1. Medical
Nurses play a central role in maintaining and monitoring the health of residents:

• Resident wellness monitoring: Tracking physical health, managing chronic conditions, and attuned to detecting subtle changes that could signal emerging medical issues.
• Medication management: Ensuring that medications are administered accurately and on schedule. Providing a critical safeguard for treatment adherence and safety.
• Care coordination: Acting as a liaison between residents and physicians. Communicating updates, clarifying medical instructions, and ensuring that care plans are followed.
• Holistic care planning: Integrating memory care needs with the management of chronic conditions to develop comprehensive, individualized treatment plans.

2. Daily Needs Supervision
Nurses work to create a predictable, supportive environment, optimizing the daily lives of residents with memory loss:

• Safe environment: Helping establish structured routines that reduce stress, promote stability, and enhance residents’ overall sense of security.
• Daily living support: Assisting with personal care and essential daily activities, ensuring that residents’ basic needs are consistently met.

3. Emotional Support
Nurses provide and promote human connection and compassionate care:

• Relationship building: Tailoring care to individual preferences and needs, fostering trust and comfort.
• Family communication: Serving as a primary point of contact for families, offering updates, reassurance, and guidance on their loved one’s well-being.
• Emotional support: Providing comfort and companionship to residents who may experience confusion, fear, or loneliness, enhancing quality of life through meaningful interactions.

Last year, during National Nurses Week, our COO, Lewis McCoy wrote, “Nurses are the heart and soul of memory care communities. They are there in moments of joy and moments of challenge, bringing not just expertise but empathy, kindness, and understanding to those who need it most. The work they do is not easy, and the challenges they face are real. They work long hours, with a deep commitment to improving the lives of others.”

His words beautifully articulate the impact of memory care nurses on everyone they meet and work with. At Anthem Memory Care communities, our nurses, as with all team members live our mission to “protect, engage, and love” our residents. Feel free to visit any of our communities and meet our nursing teams. You will be impressed with what you see. Our nurses will be happy to answer questions and share their insights with you.

If you are caring for a loved one with dementia, it may feel at times as though you are struggling to learn an entirely new language just to get a simple point across or keep them connected. That familiar rhythm of conversation that once came so easily is becoming less effective and, frankly, more frustrating.

The need to adjust communication styles is one of the realities of the cognitive decline associated with dementia that can be difficult for families to understand, let alone embrace. However, learning to do so will enable a more productive and loving conversation flow, which will help maintain healthier relationships while continuing to honor the loved one’s dignity.

Below are three key tips for more caring, productive communication:

1. Refrain from testing their memory. While it is natural fall into a pattern of “quizzing” a loved one, with the hope to spark recall, it will only create frustration for both of you. It’s important to understand that it is brain degeneration which has blocked their ability to recall events and even the names of people they know well.
   Instead of testing: “Dad, do you remember who this is?” or “Tell me, what did you just have for lunch?”.
   Try a gentle reminder: “Mom, here’s our friend, Mary” or “Wasn’t that sandwich we had for lunch good?”
2. Resist argumentative responses. It’s understandable to become frustrated when your loved one insists that they are right when they are not. Anosognosia, unlike stubborn denial, occurs due to brain damage from dementia and the impairment of self-awareness. That is why, even though their comments or recollections are clearly not correct, no amount of arguing can convince them. This is a time to put aside your need to “be right” and honor their interpretation of events or recollections.
   Instead of scolding: “You’re wrong.”  Or “What? That didn’t happen.”
   Try honoring their recollection: “That’s interesting, dad.” Or “Thanks for telling me that, mom.”
3. Avoid dismissive language. The role reversal that occurs as a loved one’s cognitive impairment increases can cause family caregivers to slip into a habit of talking down to them as they would a child. Remind yourself that your loved one is not a child. He or she is an adult experiencing a degenerative brain disease. This may help you to use adult language that respects their status in the family.
   Instead of saying: “Calm down, mom!” Or “Come on, it’s not that difficult.”
   Try saying this: “It’s okay, mom. Let’s take a break.” Or “That’s tricky, dad, can I help?”

In addition to using your words more effectively, here are few more things to remember about your conversations:

• Keep them simple: Use short, clear sentences to make conversation easier.
• Be patient: Give them time to think and respond. Try not to rush or interrupt.
• Use visual cues: Photos or familiar items can help spark memories and conversation.
• Create a supportive environment: Make sure they can see, hear, and feel comfortable before you begin a conversation.

Developing new communication tactics isn’t easy. And don’t expect it to happen overnight. Be patient with your loved one and with yourself. Make it a point to share your insights and tactics with family and close friends so that they, too, can experience the benefits. 

By building a new strategy to replace old communication patterns with new ones, you and your family can create more meaningful interactions, reduce frustration, and help your loved one engage and respond in the best way possible.

Remember, too, that you are not alone in your caregiver journey. Feel free to reach out to any of our Anthem Memory Care communities for more information or just to share your challenges with us. You are invited to attend one of our dementia support groups, led by licensed professionals, which bring family caregivers together to share their own challenges. And we will be happy to provide additional resources to help you navigate today’s challenges and those which lie ahead.

Residents of Emerald Place Memory Care in Glenview, Illinois, were honored to give back to those who have served our country by assembling “Kindness Bags” filled with daily essentials for homeless veterans in need of extra care and support. Each resident added a personal touch by creating a card with messages of gratitude and hope to include in every bag. Such a simple yet meaningful way to honor those who have given so much!

You can read more about the project in the local Glenview Patch.

Michael Grzywacz of Greenfield, a Marine Corps veteran, presented certificates of service to eight veteran residents of Franklin Place Memory Care in Franklin, Wisconsin. The ceremony also included commemorative pins and a celebratory cake, as fellow residents, families, and staff honored the veterans with a round of appreciative applause.

Among the honorees was 101-year-old Donal Jacobson, a WWII veteran who served on D-Day in Normandy.

More details about the veterans and this special event can be found in the Milwaukee Journal Sentinel.

The Thanksgiving season is all about giving back for residents and staff of Vineyard Place Memory Care in Murrieta, California. Recently they shared the spirit of giving by bringing warmth and care to the local Y.E.S Center.

The Y.E.S Center provides support to local youth and families in need. Vineyard Place residents and staff served breakfast and coffee, a simple act of kindness that filled hearts with gratitude on both sides.

The activity was covered in the local Murrieta Patch. You can read the full story here.

Providing loving care for an aging family member with memory loss can be emotionally and physically overwhelming, especially as their daily needs become more complex. It’s therefore common for family caregivers to feel isolated in their journey and unsure of the next steps. To navigate these challenges, caregivers need dependable information, practical guidance, and ongoing support. And that’s where trusted resources can make all the difference.

November is National Family Caregivers Month, a time to honor the loving, selfless individuals who provide essential care and support to a family member living with dementia. At Anthem Memory Care, we believe caregivers deserve recognition every day of the year. And they deserve all the support we can provide.

If you caring for a loved one with dementia, you need resources to support your challenging journey. Fortunately, there are several organizations with online websites dedicated to helping family caregivers manage daily responsibilities and prepare for what lies ahead.

Below is a list of ten helpful resources you may find valuable on your caregiving journey:

1. Alz.orgThe official website of the Alzheimer’s Association, with a special section for caregivers.
2. Alzheimers.gov
   A comprehensive government resource offering support, information, and guidance for those caring for individuals with Alzheimer’s disease and related dementias.
3. Family Caregiver AllianceFCA provides services to family caregivers of adults with physical and cognitive impairments, such as Parkinson’s, stroke, Alzheimer’s and other types of dementia. 
4. Alzheimer’s Foundation of America
   The AFA provides support, services and education to individuals, families and caregivers affected by Alzheimer’s disease and related dementias nationwide, and funds research for better treatment and a cure.
5. Caregiving – National Institute on Aging (NIA)
   Trusted information from the NIA at NIH, covering a wide range of topics to support family caregivers.
6. Caregiver Resource Center – Department of Healthcare Services
   Provides information on regional caregiver services as well as links to additional resources.
7. Family Caregiver Toolbox – Caregiver Action Network
   An assortment of articles on various topics related to caring for a loved one with dementia.
8. 24/7 Help Line – The Alzheimer’s Association
   A free service offering support for people living with dementia, caregivers, families and the public.
9. Department of Veterans Affairs (VA): A Caregiver Support Program that provides training, a helpline, and mentoring for family caregivers of veterans.
10. Caregivers – MedlinePlus®
    A collection of caregiver resources from the National Library of Medicine at NIH, providing medical and practical assistance to caregivers.

We’d also like to offer ourselves as a resource. We’re here to help!

Our resource page includes recorded webinars on a variety of topics led by Dr. Tam Cummings, gerontologist and dementia expert. There are also links to white papers and additional resources. Our Anthem communities also provide dementia support groups as well as respite care to give family caregivers time to re-charge and take care of their own needs.

Whether you need guidance, local connections, or simply someone to talk to, feel free to reach out to any of our Anthem Memory Care communities. We’re here to help you find the right support, both for today and as you plan for the future. We're just a call or visit away.

Residents of Concord Place Memory Care in Knoxville, Tennessee, collected more than 250 pairs of socks to help those in need during their annual “Seniors Reading Seuss for Socks” drive! Finding a creative way to spotlight the drive, the seniors took turns reading aloud beloved Dr. Seuss stories, while collecting socks from the greater Knoxville community, bringing joy, rhyme, and a touch of Dr. Seuss-style silliness to the season.

The generous donations will help provide warmth and comfort to those in need throughout Knoxville. The socks will be distributed by the Red Cross, sharing a little extra care and a lot of heart with those who need it most.

The drive was covered by local NBC News !0.

(Photo taken from NBC News 10 video)

Residents of Vineyard Place Memory Care in Murrieta were treated to a special Halloween surprise when fourth graders from Cole Elementary School stopped by for a visit. The students, dressed in bright and creative costumes, went trick-or-treating through the community, filling the halls with laughter, excitement, and lots of smiles.

“It was a wonderful opportunity for our residents to share in the joy and spirit of Halloween with the youngest generation,” said Luis Guillen, Director of Dining Services. The Murrieta Patch covered the event, and you can read the full article here.

Fall is one of our favorite times of the year, and for good reason. The cooler, crisp air and vibrant colors of changing leaves create a sensory-rich environment that our Anthem Memory Care community residents truly enjoy. Walks outdoors become more comfortable, and the familiar sights, sounds, and smells of autumn often spark memories and emotional connections.

The anticipation of upcoming holiday routines and traditions is both grounding and uplifting for residents. Our communities are already buzzing with preparation for seasonal activities, most of which also include family members. These activities never fail to strengthen bonds, creating many shared moments of joy.

Here are just a few of the fall activities we’re enjoying so far:

For Liberty Place Memory Care residents in West Chester, Ohio it’s time to pumpkin shop. But which one to pick?

Residents of Clear Creek Memory Care took advantage of a beautiful fall day in Fayetteville, Arkansas to visit their local park. Exercise, fresh air, and great company made for a memorable day.

Chisholm Place Memory Care in Wichita, Kansas held a photo session with an amazing backdrop. What a great way to capture a special moment!

Check out this winner of the Chelsea Place Memory Care pumpkin decorating contest in Aurora, Colorado. Yes, that popcorn “box” is actually a pumpkin!

A Concord Place Memory Care resident in Knoxville, Tennessee holds up a lovely piece of mosaic paper artwork to help decorate the walls for fall.

For these residents of Clear Creek Memory Care, it’s all about game day. Once a football fan, always a football fan!

Ears of popcorn were on sale at Willow Springs Memory Care in Redding, California, a creative and purposeful activity to raise funds to aid Alzheimer’s research.

If you are caring for a loved one with dementia, try re-connecting them to some of the fall activities that they have always loved. From pumpkin decorating to warm apple cider on the patio, fall is a time of beauty, reflection, and comfort. Our communities embrace every opportunity to make this season meaningful for residents and their families. You can do the same for yours.

We invite you to visit any of our Anthem Memory Care communities and take in all our fall decorations and activities firsthand. We’re here to answer your questions and share tips and resources. We’d love to learn more about your family and share our communities with you!

Liberty Place Memory Care in West Chester, Ohio recently enjoyed a surprise visit from some very special guests. Miniature cows from Boots N' Mini Moos were welcomed into the courtyard delighting residents with their unique and gentle presence and bringing lots of smiles and conversation.

But the visit brought the residents more than joy. For individuals living with cognitive impairment, interactions with animals can provide meaningful therapeutic benefits.

"It’s incredibly soothing for our residents," Amy Snow, Life Engagement Director at Liberty Place told WCPO, the local Cincinnati TV channel covering the event. "Many of them grew up with animals or lived on farms, so being around animals again—even briefly—can awaken comforting memories and a sense of connection. Just having them visit brings joy."

You can watch the full WCPO coverage here.

(photo courtesy of WCPO, De’ Jah Gross)

The holiday season will be here before you know it. For most, it is a time filled with gatherings of friends and families, celebrating special traditions. But for those caring for a loved one with dementia, this time of year brings unique challenges, and plenty of concerns.

Balancing holiday festivities with the ongoing demands of caregiving can quickly become overwhelming. The increased activity, social expectations, and changes in routine can add to the pressure, often creating tension during what should be a joyful time.

If you’re feeling this way, know that you’re not alone.

We hear often from family caregivers who tell us that the holidays they used to love now feel overwhelming and emotionally draining. We understand. Many of our own team members have cared for loved ones with dementia in their own families and know how challenging the holidays can be. That’s why it is so important for family caregivers to take steps to care for their own well-being. Because not doing so can take a significant emotional and physical toll. And it can quickly lead to a very real health condition, referred to as caregiver burnout.

What is caregiver burnout?

The Cleveland Clinic offers some valuable insights into caregiver burnout. Their studies show that while it may impact everyone differently, common signs of caregiver burnout include feeling constantly tired, stressed, anxious, withdrawn, or even depressed. Over time, the effects can extend beyond emotional well-being, impacting physical health, finances, and social life.

The good news is that there are practical steps family caregivers can take to reduce stress and help prevent burnout, especially during the hectic holiday season.

Here are seven helpful tips to help you better navigate your own health and wellbeing:

1. Let go of perfection. Give yourself permission to lower expectations and scale back. Focus on what truly matters and skip the activities that don’t bring you joy. It’s okay to say “no”, and it’s okay to let others handle the baking, decorating, or shopping.
2. Ask for help. You don’t have to do it all alone. Let your trusted friends or family members know you need support. Whether it's covering for you for an afternoon or helping with errands, even small breaks can make a big difference.
3. Carve out peaceful moments. These can be in the form of meditation, yoga, or simply sitting still for five minutes with your eyes closed. Even a few peaceful moments can restore your sense of equilibrium and steady your nerves.
4. Make room for laughter. Laughter is a surprisingly powerful antidote to caregiver burnout. While it may not always come easily, seeking out moments that make you smile, even small ones, can lighten your load. A genuine laugh can offer instant relief and help restore your sense of balance.
5. Prioritize rest. Sleep is essential to recharge both your body and mind. Try to stick to a regular sleep schedule, and don’t underestimate the power of short naps or quiet downtime.
6. Eat nourishing meals. Fuel your body with balanced, healthy foods to maintain your energy and strengthen your immune system, especially during a busy season.
7. Move your body. Even a short walk or light stretching can help reduce stress, lift your mood, and improve overall well-being.

These steps may seem simple but they’re often the first things caregivers overlook. Don’t underestimate their value! Small changes can have a powerful impact on your well-being.

Start each day by checking in with yourself:
“Am I taking on too much right now?”
“What can I do today to improve my sleep tonight?”
“Who can I ask for support so I can take a break this week?”

Caring for yourself isn’t a luxury, it’s a necessity. When you prioritize your own well-being, you become a stronger, more present caregiver. Give yourself the same compassion and care you so generously offer your loved one. It truly makes all the difference and will help you reclaim the holiday spirit your family has always loved.

Finally, don’t forget to reach out to any of our Anthem Memory Care communities. Ask us about our respite care programs and our dementia support groups. We are always here to answer your questions and provide resources to make the holidays less stressful and more joyful for you and your family.

Residents of Willow Springs Memory Care in Redding, California recently got together to assemble care bags for Nor-Cal Think Pink, a community effort to promote breast cancer awareness.

“Everyone knows someone that has been affected by breast cancer, and our residents wanted to do their part to help support a great cause,” Jessica Moore, life engagement director, told reporters from local Action News Now, which covered the event.

Engaging in causes like Think Pink not only supports a great cause, it also provides residents living with dementia a renewed sense of purpose, connection, and the joy that comes from giving back!

You can read the full Action News Now story here.

Elementary students from Rawdah Academy recently brought creativity and color to Churchill Place Memory Care in Glen Ellyn, Illinois as part of a special intergenerational event to welcome the fall season.

Armed with beautiful flowers and sidewalk chalk, the young artists spent the day decorating the community’s walkways, brightening the space and lifting spirits with their cheerful artwork and energy.

The event was covered in the Daily Herald and you can read the full story here.