It can be incredibly upsetting when a loved one with dementia suddenly accuses you of stealing their wallet or whispers in an agitated tone that someone is threatening to harm them. These accusations are alarming and can feel personal, especially when you're doing everything you can to care for them.
What family caregivers need to understand is that paranoia is a common symptom of dementia. It is not a reflection of how your loved one feels about you or anyone around them. It's the result of changes happening in the brain.
Research cited by the National Institutes of Health has found that delusions affect up to one-third of people with dementia. Paranoia is a type of delusion, a firmly held false belief, that can occur as dementia progresses. Symptoms such as delusions and suspiciousness are common behavioral changes associated with Alzheimer's disease and related dementias.
Why does paranoia occur with dementia?
As an individual’s dementia progresses, it affects the regions of their brain responsible for memory, reasoning, and perception. This makes it more difficult for them to accurately process their surroundings and the people around them and put them into perspective.
For example, if your loved one can't remember where they put their glasses or purse, their brain naturally tries to fill in the missing information. Instead of thinking, "I misplaced it," they may genuinely believe someone took it.
Other perception changes in the brain can also cause familiar people and places to seem unfamiliar or even threatening. For instance, a caregiver they've known for years may suddenly seem like a stranger, or an ordinary conversation across the room may be perceived as people talking about them.
It is important to realize that these fears, while unfounded, feel very real to your loved one.
What does dementia-related paranoia look like?
Every person is different, but some common examples include:
Even though these beliefs are not based on reality, it is unlikely that attempting to reason with them will change their mind.
How should family caregivers respond to a loved one’s increased paranoid behavior?
First, remember that when they are frightened, they're looking for reassurance, not proof that they're wrong. So, instead of attempting to correct them, try the following:
Some reactions to avoid:
Watching someone you love experience paranoia can be heartbreaking, especially when you're the target of their fears. But remembering that these behaviors stem from changes in the brain, not from anger or resentment, can help you respond with greater patience and compassion. Meeting them where they are is always the most effective and compassionate approach.
It is also important to ensure you are properly caring for your own emotional well-being. Consider joining a dementia support group. Our Anthem Memory Care communities regularly host these groups, led by licensed, qualified professionals. There, you can share your experiences and concerns with others who are facing many of the same issues, all in a supportive, compassionate environment.
Remember that some days will be harder than others, and that's okay. Because even when your loved one can't always recognize your efforts, your calm presence and reassurance can help them feel safer and more secure. And that will make you feel better, too.
At Anthem Memory Care communities, we have witnessed firsthand the remarkable transformation that occurs when residents engage in creative art activities. We also see their curiosity and enthusiasm come alive during visits to art museums and exhibits. Art has a unique ability to activate regions of the brain that are often difficult to access or stimulate, offering meaningful cognitive and emotional engagement for individuals living with dementia.
But why does viewing a painting, creating a craft, or participating in another artistic activity have such a profound impact on a brain affected by dementia?
Research from the National Institutes of Health (NIH), the American Brain Foundation, and other leading organizations has shown that both experiencing art and creating it can positively influence brain function in people living with dementia. Numerous studies suggest that artistic engagement can stimulate cognitive processes, spark memories, encourage communication, and enhance overall well-being.
Art can support cognitive, emotional, and social well-being for people living with dementia in two important ways: by creating art and by observing and appreciating it.
1. Creating Art
When someone living with dementia paints, draws, or takes part in another creative activity, their focus often shifts away from stress and toward the simple joy of creating. Art engages the senses, sparks imagination, and offers a meaningful way to connect with the world. Here are just a few of the benefits:
2. Observing and Appreciating Art
Simply looking at artwork, whether in a museum, gallery, or even the pages of an art book, can have a positive impact on both the brain and emotional well-being. A beautiful painting or familiar image can spark memories, inspire conversation, and create moments of connection. Here are some of the benefits:
When was the last time you shared an artistic experience with a loved one living with dementia? Did you notice a change in their mood, alertness, or level of engagement?
Consider spending time together on a simple art project. Activities such as sketching, watercolor painting, or coloring can stimulate the brain while providing a calming, enjoyable experience for both of you. You might also explore your local art museum. Many museums now offer dementia-friendly programs or quieter visiting hours, making it easier to enjoy a meaningful outing together.
At Anthem Memory Care, many of our residents discovered or rekindled a passion for art. Some were accomplished artists earlier in life, while others have found creativity later in their journey. Their artwork is proudly displayed throughout our communities and featured in sponsored art exhibitions, celebrating both their talents and their stories.
If you're looking for ways to incorporate art into your loved one's daily routine, we'd be happy to help. Reach out to us for ideas, resources, and practical tips that can make creative expression a meaningful part of each day.
(Our delightful header image shows an artistic resident from Highline Place Memory Care in Littleton, Colorado, expressing her creativity through watercolor.)
For family caregivers, summer doesn't always feel like a season of relaxation. Caring for a loved one with dementia during the summer months can bring a unique set of challenges, from managing more outdoor activities to navigating disrupted routines and increased family demands. Outings that once seemed simple, such as attending a barbecue, enjoying a morning in the park, or visiting relatives, often require careful planning and constant vigilance.
If you are caring for a loved one with dementia, you may feel yourself entering summer already running on empty. The added pressure to participate in seasonal traditions while maintaining a safe, stable environment for your loved one can quickly lead to burnout.
While you can't eliminate every challenge that comes with caregiving, a few practical adjustments can help make the season less stressful, more manageable, and even more enjoyable. Here are some simple strategies to help you navigate the summer months with greater comfort and confidence.
Protect both your mental and physical health:
Simplify your daily caregiving tasks:
Reduce the risk of caregiver burnout:
Summer caregiving may look different than it once did, but it can still be filled with meaningful moments and opportunities for connection. By simplifying routines, planning, and prioritizing your own well-being, you can reduce stress and create a safer, more enjoyable season for both you and your loved one.
Remember that you do not have to do everything perfectly. Small adjustments, realistic expectations, and a willingness to accept support can go a long way toward preventing burnout and helping you navigate the unique challenges of summer with greater confidence and peace of mind. Most importantly, give yourself credit for the care, patience, and dedication you bring to each day, because those are what matter most.
There is so much to love about June. For one thing, it brings the official start of summer. And that’s just fine with our residents! The milder weather enables our Anthem communities to schedule more outdoor activities, such as walks, park outings, and visits to our favorite local eateries and other attractions. It gets our residents out into the community more frequently, keeping them connected with the world around them. They love the many interactions. And so do we!
Here are some of our favorite activities and special moments we’ve enjoyed this month.
Residents of Vineyard Place Memory Care in Murrieta, California, recently enjoyed a special visit from the Alliance Perris 17-and-under soccer team.
William Budagher, World War II veteran and Purple Heart recipient, recently celebrated his 101st birthday with a big birthday bash at North Ridge Memory Care in Albuquerque, New Mexico.
Residents of Emerald Place Memory Care in Glenview, Illinois, enjoyed a recent outing to Pesche's Gardening Center, where they selected an assortment of flowers to spruce up their courtyard.
Liberty Place Memory Care residents enjoy a visit to one of their favorite places, The Cone, a beloved local ice cream store in West Chester, Ohio.
Willow Springs Memory Care residents took a trip to their local library in Redding, California. Strolling through the stacks brought back memories of this resident’s lifetime love of reading.
A day at the zoo brought lots of smiles and some great conversation for residents of Savoy Place Memory Care. From exploring exhibits to enjoying a go-round on the gorgeous carousel, it was an outing that sparked interest, engagement, and fun.
Cascade Creek Memory Care residents in Rochester, Minnesota, always enjoy frequent visits from Annie, their favorite therapy dog. You can see how Annie gets as much out of these visits as the residents!
Father’s Day in Knoxville, Tennessee, was special at Concord Place Memory Care. Residents chose their dream roles, such as a sheriff in the Wild West, and watched them come to life as amazing AI-generated portraits!
Now that we’ve packed a lot of special moments into June, it’s on to July as we dig deeper into summer and the many special outings and purposeful activities planned at our Anthem Memory Care communities.
What do you have planned for July? Your own family gatherings can still be meaningful and enjoyable for a loved one living with dementia. With a little planning and thoughtful support, they can participate in the connection, conversation, and special moments alongside the rest of the family.
If you'd like ideas for making summer activities more comfortable and engaging for everyone, reach out to any of our Anthem communities. We’ll be happy to share tips and resources to help your loved one and your entire family make the most of the season. We're here to help!
(Our header image is the perfect illustration of how much residents enjoy doing things they’ve done all their lives. This Franklin Place Memory Care fishing aficionado shows off his catch at the local lake. This is what summer is all about!)
Morningside Place Memory Care in Overland Park, Kansas, knows how to put the “senior” in “senior prom”! This year’s prom took place at Matt Ross Community Center, and the environment was aimed to evoke memories of past proms with a large dance floor and colorful disco lights.
Events like these are special because they have a way of sparking memories for individuals with dementia who may have lost their short-term memory but can recall with clarity events of days long past.
Resident, Elaine Nelson, was there for the Frank Sinatra tunes. “I love the music. I love to be around people”, she said. “It’s loud and noisy, but it’s fun!”
You can read more about this memorable event, along with residents’ reactions, in the Johnson County Post.
Porter Place Memory Care residents, family members, and friends recently gathered at the Tinley Park Roller Rink to celebrate the legacy of Raymond Quitter, a resident of Porter Place Memory Care. Alongside his late wife, Margaret, Raymond helped build a roller-skating tradition that spanned decades across Chicago’s south and southwest suburbs, creating welcoming spaces where generations of residents formed friendships, found community, and made lasting memories.
Although Raymond was unable to attend the June 18th celebration, those who came reflected on the profound impact he and Margaret had through their rinks, particularly in Glenwood and Tinley Park. Their commitment to bringing people together and supporting the community continues at the Tinley Park Roller Rink, where their legacy lives on today.
You can read the full story, including insights from residents and other long-time skaters who loved this rink in the Chicago Tribune.
(Our header image shows Porter Place life engagement assistant, Fredell Belle, who recalls many fun afternoons at the rink with friends.)
If you are separated by distance from a loved one with dementia, maintaining a meaningful connection can be challenging. While you may be doing everything possible to care for and support them from afar, it is common for families to experience feelings of sadness, anxiety, and guilt because they cannot visit as often as they would like. Not being able to see, hug, or spend time together regularly can leave family members feeling disconnected and concerned about their loved one's well-being.
Making the extra effort to remain connected with a loved one living with dementia is one of the most meaningful gifts you can give. Finding thoughtful ways to keep them involved, comforted, and reassured can strengthen your bond and support the emotional well-being of both your loved one and your family.
Below are some tips to help bridge the distance gap:
Adjust your communications style:
Use meaningful visual connections:
Share comforting reminders of home and family:
If your loved one is living in a memory care community:
At our Anthem Memory Care communities, we understand the unique challenges that families face when they are caring from a distance. One of the guiding principles of our mission is to “engage “with residents to keep them connected to each other, the community, and to those who matter most to them. Through innovative communication tools and technology platforms, we make it easy for residents and their loved ones to connect anytime from anywhere, helping families share meaningful moments and stay involved in each other’s lives.
Of course, technology is only part of the solution. Our caregivers, nurses, and life engagement team are dedicated to partnering with families to nurture meaningful relationships through personalized support, compassionate care, and opportunities for connection. By honoring each individual’s unique needs, preferences, and abilities, we help create special moments that strengthen family bonds and enhance the well-being of both residents and their loved ones.
Maintaining a strong connection with a loved one can make a lasting difference, and we’re here to support you every step of the way. We invite you to reach out to any of our communities to learn more about our approach and take advantage of some helpful tips for fostering meaningful engagement and connection. Together, we can help keep those important relationships thriving.
We often hear from family members who have come across the term “mild cognitive impairment” or “MCI” and wonder what it really means. Perhaps a loved one, or someone you know has been diagnosed with MCI. That’s why it’s important to have a basic understanding of what MCI is and how it can impact your daily life and family.
What is Mild Cognitive Impairment (MCI)?
Mild cognitive impairment (MCI) is a condition in which a person experiences noticeable changes in memory, thinking, or reasoning that are greater than expected with normal aging. These changes may affect tasks such as paying bills, remembering appointments, staying organized, making decisions, or recognizing potential hazards and risks. Despite the limitations, many individuals with MCI are generally still able to live independently and manage their daily responsibilities.
MCI does not always worsen over time. In some cases, symptoms remain stable or even improve. However, it can increase the likelihood of developing dementia, including Alzheimer's disease and other disorders that affect brain function.
The Mayo Clinic, Alzheimer's Association, and the National Institute on Aging (NIA) have published a wealth of information on MCI. We’ve summarized it into a list of five frequently asked questions below:
What are the different types of MCI?
MCI is typically classified into two categories:
What are the signs and symptoms of MCI?
An individual with MCI may experience:
What are some of the causes and risk factors of developing MCI?
MCI is associated with changes in brain regions involved in memory and thinking. It may occur as part of the early stages of certain neurological conditions, including Alzheimer's disease, Parkinson's disease, Lewy body dementia, frontotemporal dementia, and vascular dementia. Factors that may increase the risk of developing MCI include:
How is MCI diagnosed?
There is no single test that can confirm MCI. Healthcare providers typically use a combination of evaluations to assess cognitive function and rule out other possible causes of symptoms. These may include:
Are there special treatments and ways of managing MCI?
Yes! Most treatments focus on addressing underlying causes and supporting brain health. Depending on the situation, recommendations may include:
Gaining a better understanding of the cognitive changes associated with MCI can help you and your family recognize potential warning signs and know when to seek medical evaluation. It’s also wise to discuss healthcare preferences and future care wishes with loved ones and complete advance care planning documents. Taking these steps early can help ensure that important decisions reflect your values and goals.
Finally, it is important to remember that, while MCI can affect memory and thinking skills, it does not always progress to dementia. Many people with MCI continue to live active, independent lives. Staying physically active, mentally engaged, and socially connected may support overall cognitive health and quality of life. By learning about MCI and planning ahead, you and your family can approach the future with greater confidence, preparedness, and peace of mind.
Residents at Clear Creek Memory Care in Fayetteville, Arkansas are proving that a little rhythm can go a long way toward supporting brain health. They’re keeping mentally active through a unique mix of music, movement, and exercise.
The program is called “Drums Alive – Golden Beats”, a cardio drumming program designed to stimulate memory and cognitive function.
Participants use drumsticks, shakers, and boom whackers while moving to music that helps spark memories and engage both sides of the brain. According to their instructor, Hachya Franklin, the activity may also support circulation, brain health, and overall wellness.
The innovative program has earned recognition from the Dementia Society of America for its contributions to memory care.
Watch the full story from KNWA TV for more details.
Residents of Vineyard Place Memory Care in Murrieta, California, recently enjoyed a special visit from the Alliance Perris 17-and-under soccer team. Alliance Perris is part of the AYSO Alliance program, a highly competitive club-level pathway within the American Youth Soccer Organization.
The talented young athletes shared some of their soccer skills and moves, delighting residents who enthusiastically joined in the fun. Moments like these highlight the value of intergenerational connections, bringing joy, laughter, and meaningful engagement to everyone involved.
The top photo was taken during the practice session and appeared in the Riverside Press Enterprise.
As we grow older, it’s natural to notice changes in both our bodies and our minds. Stiff joints, muscle aches, reduced balance, and lower energy levels often become more common with age. At the same time, many people begin to pay closer attention to occasional forgetfulness or lapses in memory, sometimes wondering whether these changes could be early signs of dementia.
These concerns are common and completely understandable. However, knowledge and awareness can play a powerful role in reducing misconceptions and helping us make informed decisions about our health. Not every memory lapse is a sign of dementia, and while aging itself is one of the strongest risk factors, many other influences can affect brain health over time.
Understanding dementia risk factors is important because while some are beyond our control, such as age, genetics, and family history, others are linked to lifestyle and overall health and may be manageable or even preventable. By learning which factors are modifiable, individuals can take meaningful steps to support cognitive health and potentially lower their risk.
The Alzheimer's Association categorizes risk factors for Alzheimer’s disease, the most common of the dementias, into two broad categories: those you cannot change (non-modifiable) and those you can influence through lifestyle and medical care (modifiable). They remind us that dementias, such as Alzheimer’s, are present twenty years or more before symptoms appear, making early risk management even more critical.
We’ve summarized the specific core risk factors outlined by the Alzheimer's Association as follows:
Non-Modifiable Risk Factors
Modifiable Risk Factors (The "Heart-Head" Connection)
There is a strong link between vascular health and brain health. Conditions that damage blood vessels in the heart also damage vessels in the brain:
Lifestyle, Behavior, and Environmental Factors
This is an area in which individuals can exert some control. There are six core lifestyle risks that individuals can alter to protect cognitive function:
You can now appreciate the complexity of dementia and the many interconnected factors that influence whether a person ultimately develops a dementia such as Alzheimer’s disease. Dementia does not arise from a single cause; rather, it is the result of multiple genetic, medical, lifestyle, and environmental influences coming together over time, much like pieces of a puzzle.
Because of this complexity, it is essential to equip yourself and your family with accurate, evidence-based information. A stronger understanding of dementia, including who may be at greater risk and which factors can be influenced, can better prepare you to make informed choices about your health and well-being.
By prioritizing healthy habits, preventive care, mental stimulation, regular physical activity, and a supportive environment, you and your loved ones can take meaningful steps to support long-term brain health. While some risk factors remain beyond our control, adopting a healthy lifestyle can help preserve cognitive function and enhance overall wellbeing for as long as possible. After all, protecting our ability to think, remember, and stay connected is something that matters to us all.
May has been a busy month at our Anthem Memory Care communities. But then, when aren’t we busy? We know how important it is for individuals living with dementia to continue to lead vibrant lives engaging in activities that are meaningful, purposeful and enjoyable. And it is our privilege to make those activities possible.
Now that the weather is cooperating, there are more outdoor activities to enjoy and more opportunities to visit residents’ favorite local parks, restaurants, museums, and other special venues. Flowers are blooming, the days are getting longer and, with hints of summer in the air, we’re drinking in every moment of this beautiful season.
There have been so many special moments and activities to celebrate. Here are some of them:
The planters are in full bloom at Clear Creek Memory Care in Fayetteville, Arkansas. Residents love to work with the soil and nurture the plants. The stunning results are well worth their efforts!
Vineyard Place Memory Care in Murrieta, California wasn’t about to let Cinco de Mayo pass by without a fun fiesta including great music and dancing!
In preparation for Mother’s Day, Chelsea Place Memory Care women were treated to a special Queen for a Day spa day. And they truly got the “royal” treatment with hair styling, nails, and skin care. They loved the pampering … and deserve it!
Residents of Emerald Place Memory Care in Glenview, Illinois enjoyed exploring the Botanic Gardens. From vibrant tulips to bonsai trees, it was a truly delightful afternoon for all.
The resident-planted strawberries are ripe and ready to be enjoyed at Liberty Place Memory Care in West Chester, Ohio. Resident gardeners are continuing to do what they love!
A favorite outing of Willow Springs Memory Care residents in Redding, California is to visit Mary Lake and feed the geese. Fresh air, sunshine, and lots of conversation. What a great way to spend an afternoon!
So many Mother’s Day celebrations! Here is a special moment captured at Vineyard Place Memory Care in Murrieta, California.
Not too many couples are fortunate enough to celebrate seventy years of marriage, which made Robert and Helen’s 70th even more special for everyone at Porter Place Memory Care in Tinley Park, Illinois.
Willowbrook Place Memory Care residents in Littleton, Colorado paid a special visit to Fort Logan National Cemetery and placed flags on some of the graves in a pre-Memorial Day outing.
How was your month of May? Ready for summer? We certainly are and our Anthem Memory Care communities are busy making plans for a full, meaningful season with lots of moments of joy to share.
If you are caring for a loved one with dementia, make an effort to get them outdoors more often. Whether it’s a visit to the park or just some quiet moments out on the porch, the fresh air, sunshine, and blooming foliage bring powerful health benefits!
(Our header image spotlights a special fundraiser! Concord Place Memory Care residents opened a lemonade stand to raise funds in support of the local Little River Wildlife Rehabilitation Center in Knoxville, Tennessee.)
William Budagher, World War II veteran and Purple Heart recipient, recently celebrated his 101st birthday with a big birthday bash at North Ridge Memory Care in Albuquerque, New Mexico. Family and friends joined residents and staff to honor William’s extraordinary life, military service, and enduring legacy in a heartfelt and meaningful celebration.
After returning home from the war, William built a new life in New Mexico, working as a cattle inspector, iron worker, and Christmas tree merchant. While his family is deeply proud of his many accomplishments, they say his greatest role has been that of a loving grandfather.
The celebration featured many of William’s favorite foods, family stories, and lots of expressions of gratitude for both his wartime service and the life he built afterward. It was a joyful tribute to a man whose strength, dedication, and kindness have touched generations.
The celebration was also featured by KOAT TV Channel 7 where viewers can watch coverage of the special occasion.
If you have ever had an eye infection, eye surgery or even had your eyes dilated during an exam, you know how even temporary changes in vision can interfere with your ability to focus, navigate your surroundings, and function efficiently. Any degree of vision loss—regardless of the cause—can be deeply debilitating and, at times, even immobilizing.
Now imagine experiencing those challenges while living with dementia. Individuals with dementia may already struggle with memory lapses, confusion, and the frustration of feeling disconnected from conversations and daily interactions. When vision problems are added to those cognitive challenges, the result can be even more isolating, increasing confusion, limiting independence, and making meaningful engagement with the world far more difficult.
Keeping vision as strong and clear as possible is critically important for individuals living with dementia because vision supports nearly every aspect of daily functioning, communication, and independence. Key reasons include:
How can family caregivers of loved ones with dementia optimize their vision and eye health? Here are a few tips:
If you are caring for a loved one with dementia, it’s important to keep up with regular eye exams and ensure that they receive ongoing care from a licensed ophthalmologist. Maintaining the best possible vision can help support their ability to move safely, interact with others, and stay engaged with the world around them.
We also welcome you to reach out to any of our Anthem Memory Care communities for answers to your questions and more information. We will be happy to share our experiences and provide you with resources to help you and your family navigate this journey together.
At Concord Place Memory Care kindness and a love of animals has no age limit! On May 7, residents hosted a community lemonade stand to support the Little River Wildlife Rehabilitation Center in Knoxville, Tennessee. Visitors enjoyed refreshing drinks and had the chance to meet Benny, a special turtle who is unable to return to the wild.
“This fundraiser gives our residents a joyful way to connect with the community while supporting a cause they truly care about,” said Lorie Ann Wilson, life engagement director for Concord Place. “Every cup of lemonade represents compassion, purpose, and the shared desire to make a difference.”
You can read the full story in Knox TN Today.